Youth, it only comes once so make the most out of it. One of the things I promised myself that I would do before 25 is to travel the world. I dreamed, I worked hard, I bled, and yes it came true. Last year, I got the opportunity to travel around Europe with my travel buddies Madi and Jomai, and I'm telling you, it was epic! :)
When I read the article below, I knew that I have to share it. So enjoy! ;)
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The other night, I had a conversation with a young woman who had a
number of decisions ahead of her, one of which was whether she should go
to grad school or travel the world.
I told her to travel. Hands down. No excuse. Just
go.
She sighed.
“Yeah, but…”
Never were more fatal words spoken.
Yeah, but… what about debt?
Yeah, but… what about my job?
Yeah, but… what about my boyfriend (or dog or car or whatever)?
“Yeah, but…” is pernicious. Because it makes it sound like we have
the best of intentions when really we are just too scared to do what we
should.
It allows us to be cowards, while sounding noble.
Most people I know who
waited to travel the world never did.
Conversely, plenty of people who waited for grad school or a steady job
and traveled still did those things — eventually.
Be careful of the yeah-but. The yeah-but will kill your dreams.
I was so stirred by this conversation that I shared it with a group
of about thirty young adults last night, many who were asking these very
questions.
The life you’ve always wanted
When you get older, life seems to just sort of happen
to you. Your youth is a time of total empowerment.
You get to do what you want. As you mature and gain new
responsibilities, you have to be very intentional about making sure you
don’t lose sight of what’s important.
So if you still have a reasonable amount of control over your circumstances, you should do what really matters. Because
life won’t always be just about you.
During early adulthood, your worldview is still being formed. It’s
important to steward this time — to give yourself opportunities to
grow. A good way to do that is to travel.
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| Paris Trip with Madi and Jomai. August 2011. |
So, young person, travel.
Travel wide and far.
Travel boldly.
Travel with full abandon.
You will regret few risks you take, when it comes to this. I
promise you.
There are three reasons to travel while you’re young:
1. Traveling teaches you to live an adventure
When you look back on your life, you will have moments of which you
are proud and maybe a few you regret. It’s likely that the following
won’t be on the latter list:
- Bicycled across the Golden Gate Bridge.
- Appeared on Italian TV.
- Hiked a Mayan ruin.
- Learned Spanish in three months.
- Toured Europe by train.
They’re not on mine (fun fact: I’ve done all of the above).
What, then,
will be?
- Holding back.
- Being afraid.
- Making excuses.
- Not taking more risks.
- Waiting.
While you’re young, you should travel.
You should take the time to see the world and taste the fullness of
life. It’s worth whatever investment or money or sacrifice of time
required on your part.
It’s not about being a tourist. It’s about experiencing true risk and adventure so you don’t have to live in fear for the rest of your life.
2. Traveling helps you encounter compassion
In your youth, you will make choices that will define you. The
disciplines you begin now will be with you for the rest of your life.
Traveling will change you like little else can. It will put you in
places that will force you to care for issues that are bigger than you.
If you go to southeast Asia, you may encounter the slave trade. If
eastern Europe, you may see the effects of genocide and religious
persecution. If Haiti, you’ll witness the the ugly side Western
paternalism.
Your heart will
break.
You will begin to understand that the world is both a big and small
place. You will have a new-found respect for the pain and suffering that
over half of the world takes for granted on a daily basis. And you will
feel more connected to your fellow human beings in a deep and lasting
way.
You will learn to
care.
3. Traveling allows you to get some culture
While you’re still young, you should get cultured. Get to know the world and the magnificent people that fill it.
There’s nothing quite like walking alongside the Coliseum or seeing Michelangelo’s
David in
person. I can
describe the city of San Juan and its amazing beaches and
historic sites to you, but you really have to see it for yourself to
experience it. You can read all the books in the world about the Great Wall of China or
The Louvre, but
being there is a different story.
The world is a stunning place, full of outstanding works of art. See it.
Do this while you’re still young. Do not squander this time. You will never have it again.
You have a crucial opportunity to invest in the next season of your life
now. Whatever you sow, you will eventually reap.
Please. For your sake,
do this.
You won’t always be young. And life won’t always be
just about you. So travel. Experience the world for all it’s worth. Become a person of culture, adventure, and compassion.
“What if I’m not young?”
Travel, anyway. It may not be easy to do, but find a way to get out of your comfort zone. It’s really never too late.
But if you haven’t gotten sucked into the routine of life yet, I implore you —
travel. It will
never be easier than it is right now for you to do that which really matters.
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Originally written by Jeff Goins.